USING SEX TOYS FOR CLITORAL ORGASMS – WHICH ARE THE BEST, AND HOW TO USE THEM.
Today we’re talking about sex toys – more specifically, toys designed to target the clitoris for direct stimulation. Many toys, such as the well known “rabbits” are great for clitoral stimulation, but they also target the g-spot and vaginal canal, so we’ll leave these for another post and focus specifically on toys that target just your clitoris. This is not to say you can’t start with more complicated toys, but for the purpose of this blog we are really focusing on breaking down the female orgasm into baby steps, and devoting plenty of time and attention to each specific area. Ultimately, we want to ensure that you can experience both clitoral and g-spot orgasms separately so that you gain a greater understanding of how your body works!
So, let’s get started! We’ve broken down clitoral specific toys into the four categories below which we will explain in detail. Remember to start slow – Too many women that get their first vibrator simply turn it on and go for it! While that may work for some, we find a slower approach yields much better results…
Start by applying some water based lube (as it will be compatible with all of the below sex toys) and get yourself aroused with manual stimulation as discussed in our previous post. When you feel ready for the vibrator, apply some lube to it as well, and start off on the lowest setting, slowly increasing the intensity. You can use almost all of these toys in a similar manner as your own fingers using the techniques we discussed previously, such as side to side, front to back and circular motions around the clitoris and mons pubis. Remember that the clitoris is highly sensitive, so re-apply lubricant as needed. Some women respond better to lower rumbling vibrations while other prefer super fast “buzzing” vibrations –listen to your body and you will quickly discover what works for you!
These are the perfect starting point for any woman. These tiny bullet-shaped vibes (hence the name) are small enough to be discreet, but offer direct and precise stimulation to your clitoris.
This battery powered model is the perfect low cost option. It’s waterproof, single speed and powered by a single LR1 battery.
Yet another take on a bullet vibe, this one lets you choose between 4 different head attachments that deliver all sorts of tantalizing sensations.
These are perhaps the best quality bullets on the market. They are more expensive
than other options but you get what you pay for: They are fully rechargeable so you save money on batteries, are 100% waterproof and provide up to 8 different vibration and pulsation modes.
Palm Size Clitoral Vibes:
Palm vibes are larger than bullets and are generally rechargeable which makes them an eco-friendly option and often slightly more powerful. Use them just as you would a bullet.
This mouse shaped vibe is made from a combination of ABS plastic and a silicone touching tip. It has plenty of vibration settings as well as being water resistant and rechargeable.
This is the premium option. It’s made completely from silicone making it 100% waterproof. Also rechargeable and has s multitude of different vibration speeds.
Unique Clitoral Toys:
The bunny is unlike anything else out there. It’s marketed as the world’s cutest vibe, and it quite possible could be – but it also does a fantastic job of giving clitoral orgasms. The ears are spaced perfectly to slide up on either side of the clitoris and surround it with vibrations.
Yet another unique toy, this one simulates oral sex with a wheel of rotating tongues. Some women love it, some don’t. It’s definitely an experience, but if you’re just starting out we recommend going with the other vibes in the article first.
Massagers are much bigger than the other vibes as they were originally designed as all over body massagers – it just so happens that when focussed on the clitoris there superior power is almost guaranteed to make any woman orgasm.
As with most toys, clitoral vibes are also great to use with a partner. Why not have them use it on you, so they learn exactly how to give you a clitoral orgasm. Explore and have fun! Just remember to give your toys a good wash in warm water to get all the excess lube off, and sanitize regularly with a toy cleaner.
Next up, we’ll be discussing G-spot toys – stay tuned!